Cause life is getting simple and nothing excitement for me to write here...
Alright.
Back to the topic, it's 2 days left to 2015, a brand new year!
All this while I have realised that I did many things that considered failure in my life.
and I read this article and I found out that it is so true to me cause it used to be one of my weaknesses in my life!
So I would like to share this here to everyone of you, hope everyone of us here can remind ourselves to stop doing this in every year, in my life and be a better person.
Let's improve together!
This year, make
a resolution you can keep. Stop doing things that are no longer in your best
interest. Here are 15 things you must STOP doing in 2015 to truly move forward
and live this year to the fullest:
1. Stop showing
and telling everything to everyone.
The world does
not need to know your every move; leave some things to the imagination. Mystery
is good.
2. Stop
comparing yourself to others.
What you see is
NOT what you get, or even what the true reality of a situation is. We all spend
way too much of our time comparing our lives to others; yet, we all forget that
the pictures we see of others on Instagram and Facebook are simply highlights
of their lives.
They aren’t the
everyday; they aren’t the struggle; they aren’t the bad hair day. They are the
edited, Photoshopped and posed highlight reel of a momentary highlight of
someone else’s life.
3. Stop worrying
about what others think of you.
People will
judge you regardless of what you do, so do what you want. There’s nothing wrong
with walking your own journey on a path you create.
You don’t have
to do, like or want the things that other people try, love or desire. Start
that blog, write that article or wear that outfit about which you’ve been
hesitant. In the great words of Kid Cudi, “They gon’ judge me anyway, so
whatever.”
4. Stop waiting.
If you don’t
take the chance or risk it all now… when will you? Time will always be hard to
find. Start now and go after what you want, or wait for later and hope that
later isn’t too late.
5. Stop
doubting.
If you have an
idea or feeling that keeps coming back to you, make it happen. When an idea
keeps coming back, it’s for a reason. Take action and follow the ideas that
flood your mind. Million-dollar ideas are a dime a dozen, but it’s only one in
a million who follow through with their ideas.
6. Stop being a
stranger.
We’re all in
this together. When you give the world the best you have, the best comes back
to you. Be good to people. Popularity fades, kindness does not.
7. Stop feeling
sorry for yourself.
You are not a
victim; it’s time to get out of your own way. If you find yourself constantly
surrounded by drama, you are the one enabling it.
You will never
be able to control what others do; however, you are in full control of how you
react. Realize that you can overcome hard times. Instead of attending your own
pity party, you can accept the fact that only you can change your thoughts and
experiences.
You have the
power to control your feelings.
8. Stop standing
in your own way.
The thoughts in
your head about yourself and your situation really do affect your life. Make
sure your worst enemy doesn’t reside in-between your own ears.
Follow your
intuition and learn that nothing that lasts is started through force. If you
have to force it, leave it behind.
9. Stop feeling
guilty.
There is a
difference between moving on and quitting. Understand that it’s okay to grow
out of things. You don’t have to want the same things you wanted when you were
16, 18, 21 or 25…
Life changes,
and so do we. Staying where you are and living with guilt or fear is a
guaranteed trip to nowhere. You’re allowed to move on and miss it at the same
time. Missing something or someone doesn’t make you weak; it makes you real.
10. Stop
thinking money creates value.
Don’t overvalue
short-term benefits. Higher pay doesn’t equate to a job that will make you feel
complete. A significant other with a nice car doesn’t equal a lifetime of
happiness.
Choose a job
that will give you experience, more opportunities and tons of room for
professional and personal growth. Choose a relationship based on someone’s
heart, not bank account.
11. Stop feeling
obligated.
Don’t make
decisions based on what you think you SHOULD do.
Don’t take
advice from people who don’t have to live with the result of the decision. Make
decisions based on what you WANT to do. It’s your life and you’ll have to live
with the choices you make. You don’t need to choose the mediocre when greatness
exists.
12. Stop saying
“yes” all the time.
No is a complete
sentence. You owe no one an explanation for not wanting to go out, not wanting
to take a drink, not wanting to stay over, not wanting to go to the reunion.
13. Stop
thinking everything is a competition.
The true
definition of power is how much you can give back, and not just monetarily.
Being powerful is like being classy: If you have to tell people you are, you
aren’t.
14. Stop trying
to be like everyone else.
Once and for
all, own who you are, own where you’ve been, and don’t be afraid to tell your
story.
15. Stop
thinking you have to get it right on the first try.
No one else has
it figured out, either. There is no guidebook or perfect formula, and often,
life works much more as a process of elimination to figure out what we want.
We learn more
and more about ourselves and the things that truly make us happy every day —
and more importantly, the things that don’t. There are moments in life when
everything is blurry and moments everything seems to be in focus.
Just like the
lens of a camera, you have the power to adjust your vision. And, even on the
darkness days, where you can’t see anything, just keep moving forward. It’s the
only constant and forever the direction in which we all must go.
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Why I am emphasizing on stop saying "yes" all the time? Cause I am a person used to be always try to satisfied people desire then I hurt myself after... Now I started to learn to say no when there is necessary perhaps I will get hurt again...
